US trip report – Part 1

I recently spent four weeks in America. It was the first time I’d visited the US, and my first overseas trip in five years.

My first port of call was Boston. I loved Boston. It gave me a feeling of happiness that has been all too rare and fleeting for me in the last what seems like forever. At times I was overwhelmed by how happy I was there, whether I was at the Isabella Stewart Gardner museum, or looking at the glass flowers at Harvard, or at Fenway Park, or eating a clam chowder, or having yet another Sam Adams (I did the brewery tour), or just on the subway with all the buskers… I went out to Cape Cod – a 90-minute trip on the fast ferry – and it was a glorious day for it. All my photos of Boston got nuked when I tried to copy them onto my cousin’s computer. This was quite upsetting because Boston made me happier than I’d been since probably 2002. (That in itself upset me because I’m talking about a normal level of happiness for a few days, not any sort of mania, and I should get to feel that more than once every 13 years, and not have to travel 9000 miles to feel it.) It felt great to land there a second time, and take that subway ride to my hostel which seemed so familiar, but then having to fly home after just one more full day there, gosh. I had eight days there by myself, and it was great having the time just to observe such a beautiful city, not having to think about where I need to be next and at what time. Boston will always be a special place to me now. I don’t think I could live there though – it ain’t cheap!

I saw my cousin and his Italian fiancée near Albany in upstate New York. Such a pretty part of the country. We did some tramping in the Adirondack mountains. When we got to the top of one of the many peaks there, it just felt great to be alive. I wish I’d done more of that kind of thing rather than seeing cities. I also saw Lake Placid which played host to two winter Olympics.

I loved travelling on the trains. I did three train trips: Boston to Albany (5 hours), New York to Chicago (21 hours!) and Memphis to Hammond, Louisiana, as part of a tour (7 hours) and they were all very enjoyable. The train from Memphis was a double-decker and had an observation car. They were as slow as anything but that didn’t matter. You get tons of leg room and it’s just so much more comfortable than a bus, let alone a plane.

The tennis was great, if a bit hot. I saw some really good matches over two days. I think I saw eleven hours of it on one day. So I’ve now been to all the grand slams and have achieved a goal! I’d say that the best match I saw was Gasquet against Kokkinakis. The Aussie led by two sets to one but retired with leg cramps in the fifth set and probably should have thrown in the towel earlier.

I realised that don’t like really big cities that much (I might have known that already, but this trip just confirmed it). New York just didn’t do it for me (the highlight of my time there was seeing Chicago, the musical, on Broadway). As for the city of Chicago, it definitely appealed to me, mainly because it looked absolutely stunning, but I didn’t spend long enough there to really get to know it. My hotel room was on the 11th floor and gave me a magnificent view of Lake Michigan. I hope I can go back to Chicago one day.

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Hello and welcome to my new blog! My name is Steve, I’m a software engineer and I live in Wellington, New Zealand with my wife Lisa, a nurse, and our three wonderful children. Sophie, our eldest, is six and a half and she’s loving school! She just had her first tooth out and was so stoked to get $10 from the tooth fairy! I think I only got 50 cents. I’ll be taking Sophie to her dancing class soon – she’s extremely talented and will make the RNZB at this rate! Tom turns five next Friday and he’s really excited to be starting “big school”! He’s obsessed with Thomas the Tank Engine – he seems to think it was named after him! – and Lisa will be making a Thomas birthday cake for him. Tom will have all his preschool friends over and it’ll be total chaos here! Finally (at least I hope so!) there’s George, the “accident” as we call him. He’ll be one on Boxing Day – I don’t know how any of us survived last Christmas! – and now he’s crawling and bumping into things. He’s so cute. Sophie and Tom think he’s adorable! Our house is getting a bit small for the five of us so we’re looking at upsizing. I recently got promoted to a more senior role so we should manage the bigger mortgage – just about! Our weekends will be spent going from open home to open home! It’s so exciting though to be stepping on the next rung of the property ladder.

I’d love to put up some family photos, but, um, none of the people in the preceding paragraph actually exist. It’s just me. It’s always been just me. My real name isn’t Steve. I’m not a software engineer. It’s many years since I had any sort of promotion. I do live in Wellington. I do own a property and it’s been an unmitigated disaster from the moment I moved in. I’m not the kind of guy who puts exclamation marks at the end of (or in the middle of!) almost every sentence! (Do blokes even do that?! At work it’s always women who do this in their emails!! And it drives me nuts!!!)

I recently went to America for a month (more about that in my next post). It was a life-changing experience for me. For the first time in over a decade I was happy. Properly happy. Being happy is still possible for me – wow! I’m now trying to figure out what works for me and what makes me happy. I know now that everything in that first paragraph (even though the kids sound lovely and Thomas the Tank Engine is great) won’t be it.

Wellington, in case you didn’t know, lies right on a fault line, and my apartment has been earmarked as an earthquake risk. Last week I found out that the strengthening work – which will come at great expense to me – is likely to involve the loss of a window in one of my bedrooms! What use is a bedroom without a window?! Unlike the first paragraph, you could hardly make this up.

I acquired plutoman.com several years ago for some business idea I had that never got beyond the idea stage, and because I thought it was cool. I’m finally using it, so that’s nice.