by My teaching hours have fallen off a cliff. I don’t mind that – I’ve got things to sort out before my parents come on Monday – but it does feel a bit weird. Tomorrow I’ve got five lessons scheduled, so a full day, but that’s the exception at the moment.
I spoke to Mum and Dad last night. I expected them to be in St Ives, but no, they were in a hotel room in London. Paddington, to be more precise. Maybe half a star, Mum said. They plan to see a show there. Or two or three. We had a longish chat, despite the iffy connection. We talked a fair bit about my brother. He seems slightly put out that Mum and Dad are seeing me first, even though he gets that it’d be unpleasantly hot for them if they left it much later. He wants them to make two trips down to his place to somehow make up for seeing me first. I spoke to him recently and it was almost like we were on different planets. He mentioned the Russian drone incursion because he’s into that stuff – it goes with the territory of his job (and his next job) to be into that stuff – but he never asks me anything else about Romania or what my daily life might consist of. When I said that Mum and Dad were flying into Cluj, it would have been really cool if he’d asked me how to spell it or tried to locate it on a map or wondered what the architecture might be like there. But he obviously doesn’t care. I mean, we always get on well, and he’s happy for me that my life has improved since I moved to Romania, but he’s never been curious as to what that life may entail. I hoped he might come and see me here. That was probably never very likely, even if he hadn’t had kids or if Covid hadn’t happened, but it’s highly unlikely now. My sister-in-law wouldn’t be interested either – she likes cruises and theme parks – though I’m sure she’d like it here if she ever made the trip. Anyway, my parents said he’s never interested in what they’re up to in New Zealand either. I said that he at least has the excuse of already knowing New Zealand, unlike Romania which he has never set foot in.
The next round of the Scrabble league starts tomorrow. I’ll be in the third division after finishing bottom in the previous round. That’s still well above where I “should” be, and there are still very strong players working their way up the divisions, so if I suffer another relegation I will hardly be surprised. Last weekend there was a huge tournament in Bangkok, with about 450 competitors in five divisions, each playing 36 games over four days. The schedule – ten games on each of the first three days and a further six on the last day – sounded punishing. Did anyone even get to see any of Bangkok, after travelling all that way? The Australian lady who beat me in a close game asked me if I was making the trip. I’ll be wearing a green top with the Aussie flag and my name on it, she said. I’ve added in my profile that I’ve never played a Scrabble tournament in my life. People assume I’m a regular player. She competed in the third division, finishing in the middle of the pack. They streamed many of the games, and I watched a few of them. What really struck me was how often a four or five-letter word was the optimal play. My poor knowledge of obscure fours and fives is a big handicap, and I’m currently trying to learn them and make them stick in my mind. That’s no easy task.
I’m a bit nervous about my parents’ trip. Mum and I have pleasant phone conversations which lull me into a false sense of security, but then when we actually see each other I get my fingers burnt. In case my brain has filtered out previous episodes, I have my blog posts to remind me. I’m more emotionally prepared for seeing Mum than I’ve ever been, and let’s hope that helps. If we (and Dad) can have two largely stress-free weeks together, that would be the best thing to happen this year. By the way, Elena – the lady who lives above me – has agreed to look after Kitty while I’m away.
It’s great to feel normal once again. I thought I might never get back here. Fingers crossed I don’t suffer another terrible migraine.
Update: I’ve been teaching a guy in his mid-thirties for a while now; several months ago his 17-year-old niece joined him in the sessions. But three weeks ago tragedy struck for their family. Her 14-year-old brother was riding an electric scooter when he was hit by a car, and since then he has been in a coma. Those things are so dangerous. It goes without saying that we’re not having lessons at the moment.
This afternoon the twins told me about a 16-year-old boy who was killed by a car while walking in Dumbrăvița on Monday – Children’s Day. The boy was a very good footballer. He had no choice but to walk on the road because there was no pavement, as is the case on many streets in Dumbrăvița. The car was travelling far too fast – over 100 km/h. I read a news item about the accident in which the writer wondered how one of the richest suburbs in the country could have almost no pavements.
